|There are two things in your life you can focus on.
Things you can control and things you can't.
My work area is very messy right now. This is definitely something I can control.
Whether earth gets hit by a meteorite or the power goes down is something I can't control.
But with the last two examples there is always some control I can have.
I could study the concept of deflecting a meteorite. I can also spend time on getting a backup power supply.
On one had you always have some control. It just varies from near 0% to near 100%.
Right now the world is going through a pandemic and there's little I can do about but I could:
With your health you can:
With your appearance you can:
With relationships you don't have total control but you can